I'm a new Patriot

Here's yesterday's collage

First week

Zach's been home for almost a week now. It's going great. It feels good to have my family together. I'm so glad he's here.

I've been playing with Photoshop Elements a lot. Now that I know what I'm doing (well, mostly), I love putting digital collages together. When Blogger lets me upload pictures, I'll post a few.

Summer work

I had an interview this morning. I start a new job Monday morning. I'm going to be working in the CIT Dept. at the college. I'll be working on web design and projects like it. I'm so excited. It's going to be such a good experience.

Nicole is applying for the college's Summer Scholar Program. They extended the deadline until the 25th. She'll be able to take two college classes while living on campus four days a week for five weeks as well as getting experience staying in the dorms. College life but for a shorter time frame. What a wonderful way to see what it will be like before the time comes. I wish it had been available to me when I was her age.

Zach's home next week. He's on restriction today so I have to stand behind the program's discipline so he can come home this afternoon. He'll be so relieved. We have our last family therapy session at 4PM. I'm glad it's over. I'm so tired of being involved in multiple therapies each week. I'm looking forward to having my baby home and enjoying some down time this summer. Of course, my new job will put a damper on that but I'll do my best to find time for me.

What If . . .

I was listening to a guided meditation and needless to say, my mind wandered every now and then. It wandered to my biological father as the meditation suggested a letting go. The teacher meant allowing tension to be let go in the body but my mind went to emotional encumbrances that I wanted to let go of. I thought of Bill's abandonment of me and how I wished to heal that pain. Later, my mind went to the "what if's" in my life and I thought of writing on those. There are so many. I've spent so much of my life, living in the past, with the "what if's". I choose now to live in today. The "what if's" are such a trap. They are a bludgeoning tool that I have used against myself again and again.

I mean really, the "What if" I had chosen college A instead of college B, or "What if" I had married Him instead of hiM? Do any of us really think we can alter the past? Do we think we can make anything better by replaying our choices, good or bad, over and over again? I think not. I think we are wise enough to "know" that it's a useless activity. And yet, we continue. I wish I knew why. I hope to explore it more so that I can free myself from this time-consuming and painful pasttime. I didn't marry Him - I married hiM. My kids are who they are because of that choice. Would I change it if I could? Doubtful.

Classes are over

Today was the last day of classes for this semester. I am so relieved although I'd be feeling more relaxed if I hadn't bombed my Computer Programming final. I'll be lucky to get a 60 on it. I drew a complete blank on two of the five programming problems. I wrote what I could but the crucial piece of both eluded me. Thank Goddess I have good grades on the homework and the two previous tests. That'll save my grade for the semester. I need to keep a 3.5 GPA if I want to remain in Phi Kappa Phi and I do. I'd like to graduate with honors.

I was able to sign up for Painting 1 this summer so I can now sign up for Printmaking in the fall. All my classes are on mostly Mondays so if I had Painting and Printmaking, I would have been in classes from 8:15AM to 10:30PM that day. Now I don't have to be on campus until 10:25AM. It will still be a 12 hour day but Wed. & Fri. will only be 2 hours each. Nice! I am going to have Tuesdays and Thursdays off so the semester shouldn't be too bad.

I did find out I got an A in my Women Studies in Religion class and I'm expecting A's in Computer Graphics and Electronic Publication & Design. It was a good semester.

I have been tagged

I've been tagged so here are 7 interesting things about me:

1. I love, love, love potato chips!
2. I love, love, love how brilliant my kids are.
3. I am a school geek - I love being back in college and I think the younger generation hates how enthusiastic I am about my classes.
4. I am (deep shame) hopeless addicted to soap operas.
5. I drive fast (love it!) but safely.
6. I always wanted to be a professional singer.
7. I love to meditate.

I was tagged by Lauri, the Enchantress of the Tulips. Who will I tag???

Here is a little prayer for today

I open the windows wide and take a deep breath, filling myself with the winds of change that are blowing even now across my life. I feel the bracing energy in these changes and welcome them into my life, to energize and charge me, to empower me.

I ask to be filled with complete belief in myself, in who I am and what I can do. I ask to be filled with courage and creativity, to free the flow of my creativity and allow it to ride the currents of the new winds that blow. I ask that I may be filled with love completely, love of myself, love of life, love for the energy that flows around me.

I am a part of what is new. I am a part of the bracing energy that flows and is. I am power and love. I am.

This is from Quado.com. I get a weekly email from her and I loved this prayer.